Maybe to kids, yes...but to adults, it is not so common but it does happen.
I may then say that this is supposed to be a childish thing that has to fade away as we grow old. There’s the reason of vying for parental favors, or for community attention, or for personal growth. Supposedly, these kids are feeling their insecurities and trying to cope with their world. There is also that possibility of still at a state of not knowing themselves fully nor the proper norms…thus parents should be there for them to help them find themselves and build the confidence they need plus understanding of the importance of family and relationship; that this sibling rivalry should not exist.
And so it is sad to see grown ups to still have it with them at an age that they should have built the foundation of themselves. When they should have been molded the right way, the parents did not see the effect of this in the early years to the bond in the future. THEN AGAIN, adults are supposed to have a greater range of intellect to understand and put into action what is right and not the wrong. One just have to measure the importance of love in comparison to hate, of selfishness versus selflessness, and of good versus bad.
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